Walk N the Spirit!

I was talkn 2 a man the other day who proceeded 2 explain 2 me how he got n2 a physical altercation with another man.The 1stman(intoxicated) wanted 2 go 2 a place that the 2nd man was preventing him from goin 2 only out of the safety of the 1st man.The1st man then decided 2 push the 2nd man out of his way,so the 2nd guy pushed back,Next thing U know they goin @it.after all was said and done,no 1 wuz really injured in the altercation. 

My 1st thought wuz N this day and time,as crazy as ppl R,should we really b getn n2 shoving matches w/strangers we meet.The 1st guy wuz intoxicated,He could have pulled out a knife ,a gun,who knows.The 2nd guys life could have ended that day w/no thought 2 his wife,children family.
I asked the 2nd guy I said when he shoved you,did he hurt U N any kind of manner except 4 ur pride.DID HE HURT UR PHYSICAL PERSON BY THE PUSH? he responded no,I said wel Y did u start pushn back? He looked @me w/a puzzled look,He said bcuz he pushed me.
I said we as Christians as followers of Christ R 2 B the bigger ppl.We R a chosen ppl set apart and special,we dont act like every1 else.Ur Holy Spirit should have automatically kicked N and U should have turned the other cheek,especially since u wer not hurt N any way.He responded by sayn i didn stop 2 think about it.
Wel if that Holy Spirit is continuosly dwellin w/N U .........as it should B,nothin 2 stop and think about it should come automatically.
THE BOOK SAYS:Proverbs 19:11"If you are sensible, you will control your temper. When someone wrongs you, it is a great virtue 2 ignore it!